You dont have to forgive someone who hijacked your soul

 So, wait a minute. You mean to tell me that after everything I’ve been through, I’m supposed to forgive and forget? I’m supposed to get over it and move on? Be the bigger person? Turn the other cheek? Well, let me tell you something. I can’t be any bigger of a person. I can’t turn any more cheeks. There are no more cheeks to turn.

When you survive narcissistic psychological warfare, there is no getting over it. You learn how to survive it. You learn how to breathe again. You learn how to exist in a world that told you your reality was a lie. And yet, within our communities, these toxic mantras are constantly shoved in our faces by family, friends, therapists, lawyers, and even doctors.

The abuse made you stronger. No. I made me stronger. The abuse gave me PTSD. The abuse gave me trust issues. The abuse gave me nightmares and flashbacks. The abuse made me feel unsafe in my own body, like my nervous system is constantly hunting me. That’s what the abuse did.

And don’t even get me started on “It takes two.” No, it doesn’t. It takes one person to abuse. One person to manipulate. One person to destroy. The rest is survival.

And the question “Why did you stay so long?” Let’s answer that. Because our nervous system was hijacked. Because our reward system was overtaken. Because we were trauma bonded, or as I call it, trauma encoded dependency. Because someone found our abandonment wounds and exploited them with precision.

We need to stop blaming victims and start holding abusers accountable. And the first step is this: stop repeating these toxic mantras that keep survivors silent and shame-ridden. Stop gaslighting the wounded with platitudes. Survivors don’t need to get over it. We need to be heard, validated, and protected.

And this is exactly why Voiceless No More was written. This book isn’t self-help. It’s truth-telling. It’s the first time someone called it what it really is, not abuse but psychological warfare. Thank you for supporting our movement. Together, we Heal Loudly.

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