SURVIVOR STORIES
“Her Truth Didn’t Die With Her”
Submitted to the Heal Loudly Movement. Name changed for privacy.
Some stories come in and leave a mark on your soul and this one carved itself in deep.
A survivor recently reached out after watching one of our videos about emotional murder. Her message hit like lightning: painfully honest, deeply moving, and tragically familiar to far too many of us.
She lost her mother to suicide.
But it wasn’t just suicide.
It was emotional murder.
“The day I lost my mother, I knew how, why, and who was responsible.”
This survivor watched her mother suffer at the hands of a narcissistic abuser for years until it broke her spirit. She tried everything: speaking out, pleading with family, friends, even the police. But no one listened. Not really. Not enough.
They closed the case. Wrote it off as mental illness.
But they never asked what caused that illness.
They never questioned who cultivated the despair that killed her.
Her father her mother’s abuser still walks free. Still wears the costume of a good man. He even has the churches fooled. But behind closed doors, this man orchestrated the slow and steady destruction of a woman’s will to live.
“I can’t tell you how many times I’ve tried to explain it what he did to her. What he put her through. But people don’t want to see it. He plays the part too well.”
This survivor is done being silent. And she’s right to be. She called it what it is: a public safety hazard. Because when abusers are never held accountable, they don’t stop. They just move on to the next victim.
And we we who see it we have a responsibility to expose it.
“I truly believe if we got enough people’s stories out into the world, it would make a difference.”
She’s not wrong. That’s the heart of the Heal Loudly Movement. Her story and her mother’s story deserve to be heard, honored, and remembered as more than a statistic or a quiet tragedy.
Because her mother didn’t die because she was “mentally ill.”
She died because she was emotionally tortured.
By a narcissist who still pretends to be the victim.
And that that is the epidemic no one wants to name.
But we will.
And we’ll keep naming it.
Loudly.
“Her truth didn’t die with her. Not on my watch.”
ORIGINAL LETTER (Unedited)
> I was truly so moved by your video, the day I lost my mother I knew how, why and who was responsible. I watched my mother live a sad life of torture until it ultimately cost her her life. I can’t tell you how many times I've tried to express what you did in your video to loved ones, friends, anyone who would listen to me to expose her abuser and try to hold him accountable for this unforgivable treatment to my mother. I pleaded! With the police to listen to me and they closed my mother’s case and chalked it up to mental illness without realizing who, what, and why her mental health deteriorated resulting in her taking her own life.
The pain this monster has inflicted on me and my mother will unfortunately never stop because he paints himself as this perfect man on the outside to everyone—he even has the churches fooled.
I wanted to reach out because this is something I’m extremely passionate about. When you said it was emotional shmerder... That's literally!! What it is and it won’t stop if we don’t spread awareness to others. In my opinion it’s a true and valid safety hazard to society that monsters like that walk around and just continue to their next victims with no repercussions!
My mother did take her own life but the truth and facts are so much deeper than that. The horrendous actions of my father is and should be held responsible.
If I can help in any way! Whatsoever to the message you're trying to send, I'm all in! I truly believe if we got enough people’s stories and what they went through out there in the world it would make a difference. So again please let me know. I’ve finally come to a place mentally where I’m ready to share my mother’s story, her truth. No one should ever! Go through narc. abuse.
If you’ve read this and made it this far, thank you so much! Your video made me realize I’m not alone and what my mother went through is very real. So again thank you! For all you do!
⚖️ CALL TO ACTION: SIGN THE PETITION TO END EMOTIONAL MURDER
Join the fight for the Voiceless. Sign the Voiceless Justice Act today.
👉 www.change.org/VoicelessJusticeAct
Too many survivors die before they’re believed.
Too many abusers walk free, hiding behind charm, status, and false smiles.
And too often, the truth is buried with the victim.
This is not “just” suicide.
It’s psychological homicide.
It's emotional murder.
And it's happening every single day.
Victims of narcissistic abuse aren’t just “sad.”
They’re systematically broken down isolated, gaslit, manipulated, and driven to believe death is their only escape.
This epidemic is real. It’s silent. And it’s deadly.
The Voiceless Justice Act is a federal petition to recognize narcissistic abuse as the lethal psychological warfare that it is and to hold abusers legally accountable when their victims are driven to suicide.
No more silence. No more dismissal. No more pretending narcissistic abuse isn’t fatal.
🖊️ Sign the petition. Be a voice for those who no longer have one.
www.change.org/VoicelessJusticeAct
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