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Narcissistic Abuse SURVIVOR STORIES “He Said He Can’t Wait to Go to My Funeral”

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“He Said He Can’t Wait to Go to My Funeral”

Submitted to the Heal Loudly Movement. Name changed for privacy.


This one… this one leaves no room for doubt.

No room for pretending narcissistic abuse isn’t deadly.

No room for soft language or silence.


She came forward because her soul has been shattered. Not metaphorically literally. Systematically. Deliberately. And in writing, her abuser told her exactly what he wanted:


“I can’t wait to go to your funeral.”


Let’s not dance around what that is.

That is premeditated psychological murder. That is a narcissist admitting the endgame.

And yet… no consequences.


This survivor wasn’t just abused by one person she was hunted by an entire family system.

A cult of enablers.

A circle of silence.

The kind of multi-front abuse that erodes everything: your mind, your trust, your identity, your hope.


 “Nobody will listen to what I have to say.”


That line should haunt us all. Because it echoes in every survivor’s chest.


She’s not alone in that. The courts ignore it. Friends drift. Therapists sometimes minimize it. And the world just… doesn’t know what to do with a victim whose abuser never left bruises, only invisible burns that never stop hurting.


But we do.

We know.

And we are listening.


 “It’s just as bad as a serial killer. They’ll lock up a serial killer. But they let this happen. Every day.”


She’s right. Narcissistic abuse is predatory. It’s life-threatening. And it should be criminal.


It’s not “just emotional abuse.” It’s psychological warfare designed to end lives in slow motion.

It’s not “just manipulation.” It’s a pattern of destruction that mirrors tactics used by dictators and cult leaders.

And it should never never—be legal.


The Voiceless Justice Act was written for people exactly like this.

For the ones screaming into the void, begging for someone anyone to hear them before it’s too late.


To the survivor who sent this: you are not crazy. You are not broken. You are not alone.


You are evidence.

And now, you're part of the resistance.


⚖️ CALL TO ACTION: Help Us Make Narcissistic Abuse Illegal


Sign the Voiceless Justice Act petition to criminalize narcissistic abuse, hold abusers accountable for driving victims to suicide, and protect survivors before it’s too late.

🖊️ www.change.org/VoicelessJusticeAct


Narcissistic abuse is life-threatening. It is psychological murder.

And it’s time the law caught up with the truth.


ORIGINAL MESSAGE (Unedited)


 I was abused by a narcissist and his whole family. He still tortures me. I knew I wasn’t crazy. But nobody will listen to what I have to say and now my soul is shattered my life has been ruined. I have in writing from him that he can’t wait to go to my funeral.


We need to fight together and make this illegal because it is life-threatening for narcissists to be able to abuse somebody and get away with it.


I think doing something that makes it illegal would help those who don’t have a voice. It would give those a voice who need to be heard.


It’s just as bad as a serial killer. They will lock up a serial killer, and the one victim that got away they help.


#narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #Voiceless #thevoicelessjusticeact

Comments

Anonymous said…
29 years of narcissistic abuse survivor and yes if it wasn’t for higher power that continued to save me over and over again I wud not be typing this as this group of cruel individuals wanted me dead to cover up for their crimes done to me and my daughter when she was still in diapers. They are criminals who are hiding behind a mask as imposters.
Anonymous said…
I was 85 years old on 6-9=2025. Barb Diemer.

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