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The Woman Who Saved Me: Donielle Jolie Yanez and the Power of Healing Loudly

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The most foolish thing a narcissist can ever do…

The most foolish thing a narcissist can ever do…

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is mistake an empath’s silence for weakness.


They think our gentleness is naivety.

They think our forgiveness is permission.

They think our love is a flaw they can exploit

again, and again, and again.


But here’s the fatal miscalculation:


Empaths aren’t weak.

We are forged from pain.

We carry the weight of the world in our hearts

and still find room to carry others.


Yes, we bend.

Yes, we bleed.

Yes, we break.


But when we break… we don’t just shatter 

we awaken.


And in that awakening, something shifts.

The soft becomes steel.

The heart that once only healed

now holds a sword.


We become something else.

Something they never saw coming.

A reckoning with a pulse.

A storm with a spine.

The empath evolved.


And I was that empath.

Until Frankie Zerella pushed me too far.


My narcissist didn’t just break my heart he tried to break my will to live.

Nine suicide attempts.

All of my possessions stolen.

False charges filed to destroy my name.

Left homeless, humiliated, and gasping for reasons to keep breathing.


But the moment I truly snapped wasn’t any of that.


It was when he threw away my dog’s ashes.

The last piece of unconditional love I had left in this world.


That’s when the fire inside me ignited.

That’s when the dark empath was born.


Not evil.

Evolved.


No longer the quiet survivor, but a storm with purpose.

I stopped weeping and started warning.

I stopped begging and started building.


I stood up from the ashes of my old life with a message:


You pushed the wrong empath.


And now, I fight for every soul who still whispers instead of roars.

For every person being broken by someone who wears a mask.

For the survivors silenced by shame, threats, or a system that refuses to see psychological abuse as a crime.


I found my voice in the fire.

And now I use it to launch something bigger than myself.


The Voiceless Justice Act.


A movement.

A mission.

A message to every abuser who thinks they’ve won:


You didn’t.


The empath you tried to bury is now the voice of millions.

And we will not heal quietly.

We will Heal Loudly.

We will expose the crimes behind closed doors.

And we will rise not just for ourselves but for every soul too broken to stand just yet.


This isn’t revenge.

This is revolution.

And it has a name.


The Voiceless Justice Act.


We’re coming.

And we’re not backing down.



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Anonymous said…
Some of my children have disowned me. I am a Republican and my narc ex is a Democrat.The court System in Putnam County, Ottawa, Ohio betrayed me and my kids .I have a book written I want published. I have talked to Father Scott about all my troubles her in Ottawa,Ohio. He said in all his years being a priest he has never heard such horror stories. My name is Barb Diemer barbaradiemer9@gmail.com.
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