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The dangers.of relationship with people who have low emotional intelligence

Be careful when you get involved with a narcissist. They lack the emotional intelligence to truly understand or see your feelings. Instead, they twist things to serve their own needs, leaving you feeling invisible and unheard.



They struggle to regulate their emotions, so you’ll often find yourself walking on eggshells around their sudden anger or cold moods. It’s exhausting and unfair, but it’s part of how they operate.


They also lack self-awareness. They don’t recognize or don’t want to recognize how their actions hurt those around them. Because of this, they repeatedly cross boundaries and cause pain without taking responsibility.


And empathy? That’s something they simply don’t have. They can’t genuinely feel what you’re going through or respect your feelings. Your pain doesn’t register with them, and your boundaries often mean nothing.


So protect yourself. Surround yourself with people who have emotional intelligence, who understand themselves and care about others. People who can manage their emotions without taking it out on you. Because if you don’t, you’ll bear the cost of their immaturity and lack of growth and that’s a heavy burden no one should carry.

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Daniel Ryan Cotler

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