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Narcissists Murder by Suicide: The Silent Epidemic

 Narcissists Murder by Suicide: The Silent Epidemic



Narcissists don’t just ruin lives they end them. Not with visible violence, but with relentless emotional and psychological abuse designed to break their victims from the inside out. This isn’t hyperbole; it’s reality. For countless victims, narcissistic abuse leads to one final, devastating outcome: death by suicide. And let’s be clear this is murder.


I know because I lived it. I survived nine suicide attempts during a relationship with a narcissist. Every attempt was fueled by the calculated cruelty of someone who knew exactly how to destroy me, piece by piece. I’m lucky to be here today, but too many others don’t get the chance to tell their story.


This isn’t accidental. Narcissists are deliberate. They isolate their victims, strip them of their support systems, and manipulate them into believing they’re worthless. They gaslight them until they can’t trust their own minds, creating a reality where death feels like the only escape. And when their victim finally succumbs, the narcissist walks away clean, playing the grieving partner while the world blames the victim.


The worst part? This epidemic is invisible. Society doesn’t recognize it because narcissistic abuse doesn’t leave physical scars. It leaves wounds on the soul, on the psyche, on the very foundation of a person’s identity. And those wounds are ignored, misinterpreted, or dismissed.


In my book Voiceless: The Silent Epidemic of Suicide Due to Narcissistic Abuse, I share the stories of victims whose lives were stolen by their abusers. Their pain, their despair, and their deaths are proof of how real this crisis is. Within our community, we know the truth: hundreds of thousands, maybe even millions, have been lost to this kind of abuse. And yet, the world looks away.


This is why healing loudly matters. It’s not just about surviving it’s about exposing the truth. It’s about refusing to let the stories of those we’ve lost be silenced. It’s about demanding justice.


We must fight for laws that recognize narcissistic abuse as a crime. We must push for suicides caused by this abuse to be treated as homicides, because that’s exactly what they are. And we must educate the world about the insidious tactics these abusers use to destroy their victims.


To survivors: your voice matters. If it’s safe, speak up. Share your story. Keep a record of the abuse texts, emails, journals so the truth can’t be erased. And know this: you’re not alone.


To those we’ve lost, we won’t let your deaths be in vain. We will fight for you, for justice, for recognition. We will make sure the world knows the truth: narcissists murder by suicide, and it has to end.



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