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Narcissists dont care about the truth.

 Narcissists don’t care about the truth. They will conjure up the most absurd lies, spinning tales that make no sense in the real world. My narcissist, for instance, went so far as to pull stock images of bloody knives from Google, claiming I stabbed him. Their delusions can lead them to make wild accusations and fabrications that defy logic, all in an attempt to manipulate the narrative to their advantage.


In their minds, it’s not about being rational or credible; it’s about getting what they want in that moment, regardless of how far-fetched their claims may be. Even if it looks like they’re grasping at straws, they won’t hesitate to throw out whatever comes to mind. They thrive on chaos and confusion, knowing that the more outrageous the story, the more it can shock and sway others.


They’re often aware that their lies don’t hold up under scrutiny, but that doesn’t matter to them. Their goal is to distort reality enough to maintain control and position themselves as the victim. For them, the ends justify the means. They’ll weave a narrative that paints you as the villain, even if their fabrications like claiming you wielded bloody knives are laughable or impossible.


It’s a tactic rooted in their need for power and dominance, and they’ll do it without a second thought. The truth is irrelevant; what matters is how effectively they can manipulate those around them to believe their twisted version of reality.

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