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New Book Release: "Beneath the Ashes: Haikus on Narcissistic Abuse and Healing" by Daniel Ryan Cotler

New Book Release: "Beneath the Ashes: Haikus on Narcissistic Abuse and Healing" by Daniel Ryan Cotler


Available Exclusively on Amazon November 4, 2024


St. Louis, Mo — Daniel Ryan Cotler, best selling author, poet, and advocate for survivors of narcissistic abuse, is set to release his latest book, Beneath the Ashes: Haikus on Narcissistic Abuse and Healing, on November 4, 2024. This transformative collection of haikus delves into the profound emotional turmoil experienced by victims of narcissistic abuse while offering hope and pathways to healing.


Drawing on his personal experiences and extensive knowledge of narcissistic abuse, Cotler presents a powerful narrative through the lens of nature and the seasons. Each chapter explores various aspects of narcissistic abuse, including the cycle of manipulation, the impact of trauma bonding, and the struggles of recovery. Cotler’s poignant haikus serve as both a reflection of pain and a beacon of hope for those navigating their healing journeys.


The book is divided into eight chapters, each containing thirty traditional haikus that capture the essence of each phase of the abusive cycle. The nature-oriented theme is woven throughout the text, using metaphors of seasons to highlight growth, resilience, and the beauty of recovery.


In addition to the haikus, Beneath the Ashes features educational introductions and interactive reflections that invite readers to engage with the material on a deeper level. Cotler's commitment to empowering survivors is further emphasized through insightful discussions on complex PTSD (CPTSD), trauma bonding, and the silent epidemic of suicide associated with narcissistic abuse.


“I wrote this book to shed light on the often-unseen struggles faced by survivors and to offer a voice to those who feel silenced,” says Cotler. “My hope is that readers will find solace and strength in these pages and recognize that healing is possible.”


Beneath the Ashes: Haikus on Narcissistic Abuse and Healing will be available exclusively on Amazon starting November 4, 2024. 


For media inquiries, interviews, please contact Daniel Ryan Cotler at Danryanpoetry@gmail.com 


About Daniel Ryan Cotler

Daniel Ryan Cotler is a best-selling author, poet, and advocate for survivors of narcissistic abuse. He is the author of two critically acclaimed books: Voiceless: A Silent Epidemic of Suicide Due to Narcissistic Abuse and My Heartbreak Diary: My Journey Healing from Narcissistic Abuse. Cotler is the founder of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community Blog and Podcast, which has reached millions of individuals worldwide and is ranked number 8 in the world by Feedspot. He is also the visionary behind the Heal Loudly Movement and the creator of the documentary Narcissistic True Crimes of Wilton Manors. Cotler strives to empower survivors to reclaim their voices and embrace their healing journeys, providing profound insights and practical guidance for those navigating the complexities of abuse and recovery.

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