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Coming Nov 4th to Amazon. Beneath The Ashes: Haikus on Narcissistic Abuse and Healing by Daniel Ryan Cotler

 


Coming November 4th to Amazon: Beneath the Ashes: Haikus on Narcissistic Abuse and Healing by Daniel Ryan Cotler.


From best-selling author, poet, and renowned advocate for survivors of narcissistic abuse, Daniel Ryan Cotler brings a deeply personal and transformative collection of 215 haikus that explore the journey through narcissistic abuse and the profound process of healing. Cotler, a survivor of narcissistic abuse and a nine-time suicide attempt survivor, has dedicated his life to raising awareness about the devastating impact of narcissistic relationships and the possibility of reclaiming one’s life.


Through his acclaimed blog, podcast, and community, Cotler reaches millions of people globally, offering guidance, support, and validation to those grappling with the aftermath of abuse. His personal experiences infuse every haiku in Beneath the Ashes, creating a raw and honest exploration of pain, heartbreak, and resilience. Structured into eight chapters, the book takes readers through the cycles of abuse, the psychological toll it takes, and the journey toward empowerment and recovery.


Drawing from nature as a central theme, each haiku captures the cyclical nature of healing, using metaphors of the changing seasons to reflect the stages of growth, decay, renewal, and rebirth. Cotler’s mastery of the haiku form blends traditional poetic structure with emotional depth, making this collection a deeply moving experience for anyone who has faced the emotional scars of narcissistic abuse.


Beneath the Ashes is more than a collection of poems—it is a beacon of hope for survivors, a reminder that even from the deepest pain, there is the possibility of new life, strength, and healing. Cotler’s work serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, providing readers not only with validation but also with a roadmap for their own healing journeys.


Join Daniel Ryan Cotler on November 4th as he continues his mission to heal loudly and help others rediscover their strength beneath the ashes.







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