Skip to main content

The New Supply Isn’t Special: Understanding the Narcissist’s Game After Discard

Celebrating a Milestone: 200 Posts and Counting—Thank You, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community!

 Celebrating a Milestone: 200 Posts and Counting—Thank You, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community!



I am beyond excited to share a monumental achievement with all of you—our blog has just reached its 200th post! But that's not all—thanks to the incredible support and engagement from each of you, we've also secured the #8 spot in the world on Feedspot for blogs dedicated to narcissistic abuse recovery.


As the founder of the Heal Loudly movement and the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery community, I started this blog with a vision of creating a safe, empowering space where survivors could come together to share their stories, find strength, and heal. Reaching this milestone is a testament to the power of community, the resilience of survivors, and the importance of sharing our voices.


When I reflect on the journey we’ve taken together over these 200 posts, I am filled with immense gratitude. This blog has become more than just a platform for sharing information—it's a beacon of hope, a source of comfort, and a rallying point for survivors around the world. We’ve explored the complexities of narcissistic abuse, discussed strategies for recovery, and provided a space for those who have been silenced to speak their truth.


Being ranked #8 in the world is an incredible honor, but what matters most is the impact we’ve had on each other’s lives. The stories shared here, the conversations sparked, and the connections made have all contributed to a global community that is stronger, more informed, and more empowered than ever before. Together, we have shown that healing is not just possible—it’s inevitable when we support one another.


To each and every one of you who has read, commented, shared, and contributed to this blog, I want to extend my deepest thanks. Your participation and engagement have turned this blog into a vibrant community where healing thrives. Whether you’ve been here since the first post or you’ve just joined us, your presence is invaluable. It’s your courage, your resilience, and your willingness to heal loudly that makes this community what it is.


As we celebrate 200 posts, I want to encourage you to continue your healing journey with the same strength and determination that has brought you this far. Recovery from narcissistic abuse is a complex and ongoing process, but you do not have to walk this path alone. The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery community is here for you, every step of the way.


Moving forward, I am committed to continuing our mission—to share resources, provide support, and foster an environment where every survivor feels heard, validated, and empowered. There are still many stories to be told, many truths to be uncovered, and many more milestones to reach. Together, we will continue to heal loudly, to speak out against abuse, and to break the cycle for good.


Here’s to 200 posts—and to the many more that will follow. Let’s keep building this community, keep sharing our stories, and keep shining a light on the path to recovery.


Thank you for being part of this incredible journey. Your strength, your voice, and your healing matter.


With deep gratitude and unwavering solidarity,


Daniel Ryan Cotler  

Founder of the Heal Loudly Movement & Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Toxic traits of covert narcissists

 Welcome to the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Community Blog and Podcast. Today, we delve into a critical topic that affects many people: the toxic behaviors of covert narcissists. Covert narcissists are often more challenging to identify than their overt counterparts because they hide their narcissism behind a façade of concern and care. This concealment makes their toxic behaviors particularly insidious. Understanding these behaviors is essential for recognizing and protecting yourself from their harmful effects. The first toxic behavior of covert narcissists is hiding and concealing their true identity. They present themselves as caring and concerned individuals, but this is merely a manipulation tactic. Their apparent concern often feels phony or forced. Many targets of narcissists are empaths, who can detect this lack of genuineness through gut instincts and intuition. If you feel that something about their concern is off, it’s likely because it is. Recognizing this false concer...

Why do narcissist’s discard their partners

Narcissists discard their partners cruelly due to several psychological factors rooted in their personality disorder. Understanding these factors can shed light on their behavior and provide some clarity for those who have experienced such treatment. Lack of empathy is one of the defining traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Narcissists often struggle to understand or care about the feelings of others. This makes it easy for them to discard partners without considering the emotional pain they cause. Objectification of partners is another common behavior. Narcissists typically view their partners not as individuals with their own needs and emotions but as objects that serve a purpose. When a partner no longer fulfills the narcissist’s needs—whether it be admiration, validation, or control—they are seen as disposable. Narcissists have a strong need for control. Discarding a partner cruelly can be a way for the narcissist to assert dominance and control. By leaving in a hars...

Help Us Pass the Voiceless Justice Act: Protect Victims of Narcissistic Abuse

 Help Us Pass the Voiceless Justice Act https://gofund.me/7f6c4aa4 Help Us Pass the Voiceless Justice Act: Protect Victims of Narcissistic Abuse For years, victims of narcissistic abuse have suffered in silence, their voices ignored, their pain brushed aside. The psychological warfare that narcissists inflict on their victims leaves scars deeper than physical wounds, yet the laws do not protect these survivors. This must change. The Voiceless Justice Act seeks to address this devastating issue by creating mandatory sentencing for those who commit narcissistic abuse and related murders, as well as providing resources for victims to reclaim their lives. This groundbreaking piece of legislation will not only hold abusers accountable, but it will also raise awareness and provide a vital lifeline for survivors. But we need your help to make this happen. We are working tirelessly to bring this petition to lawmakers, but we cannot do it alone. We need your support to gather the signatures...