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In the midst of life's darkest moments, when abuse looms over us like an oppressive shadow, it can feel like there's no escape. Its suffocating grip tries to drag us into the abyss of despair, tempting us to surrender to the darkness that threatens to consume us. But in those moments, it's crucial to hold on to the truth that we are resilient beings, capable of weathering even the fiercest storms.


Like the dawn breaking through the night sky, there's always a promise of a new day waiting for us. It may seem distant and unreachable amidst the chaos and pain, but it's there, waiting to be embraced. Despite the overwhelming darkness that surrounds us, we must cling to the hope that brighter days are ahead. This hope acts as a guiding light, leading us through the darkest of nights.


As we endure the storms of life, enduring the relentless assault of abuse and trauma, it's essential to remember that storms eventually pass. Just as the clouds give way to the sun's radiant rays, so too will our struggles give way to moments of peace and healing. And in those moments, the resilience that lies within us becomes apparent. We emerge from the darkness stronger and more resilient than before, ready to embrace the promise of a new day with renewed strength and hope.


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