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Triangulation in narcissistic relationships



Triangulation, a sophisticated manipulation tactic often employed by narcissists, weaves a complex web of deceit that extends well beyond the primary victim. At its core, this strategic maneuver exploits existing relationships, drawing unsuspecting individuals into a dynamic orchestrated by the narcissist. The involvement of "flying monkeys," individuals unwittingly acting on behalf of the narcissist, further complicates this manipulation. This extends into a form of gang stalking, where allies mobilized by the narcissist surveil, monitor, and harass the primary victim.


The mechanics of triangulation involve the narcissist spreading lies and manipulating perceptions, creating an intricate tapestry of deceit. This web entangles close friends and family members, causing significant emotional harm to the primary victim. The inclusion of flying monkeys intensifies the emotional toll, fostering an environment of isolation and confusion.



Within this complex dynamic, the primary victim grapples with confusion, emotional distress, and the challenge of discerning reality. As the narcissist disseminates misinformation, the victim may receive calls expressing concern or conveying manipulated information from individuals unaware of the manipulative game at play.


Recognizing the mechanics of triangulation necessitates a nuanced understanding of communication patterns and interpersonal dynamics. Identifying subtle cues, insinuations, and orchestrated scenarios is crucial in discerning the distortion of reality.


To navigate this intricate web, victims can consider two key strategies. Firstly, recognizing the need for self-preservation, they may choose to distance themselves from the toxic dynamic. Secondly, a proactive approach involves confronting the manipulation head-on, safeguarding well-being, and protecting those in the social circle from potential fallout.



In conclusion, triangulation transcends mere manipulation, involving the intricate roles of flying monkeys, gang stalking, and abuse by proxy. Understanding these mechanics is pivotal for individuals facing narcissistic abuse, empowering them to reclaim control over their narrative. The smear campaign, an integral part of this manipulation, deliberately tarnishes the victim's reputation, spreading false information and leaving them emotionally and socially isolated. Recognizing these dynamics is crucial for those caught in the web of narcissistic manipulation, empowering them to counteract the detrimental effects of the smear campaign and regain control over their narrative.

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