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The ultimate list of red flags.

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1. Excessive Self-Centeredness

2. Lack of Empathy

3. Manipulation

4. Grandiosity

5. Need for Admiration

6. Entitlement

7. Exploitative Behavior

8. Difficulty Maintaining Relationships

9. Anger and Aggression

10. Fragile Self-Esteem

11. Jealousy and Envy

12. Boundary Violation

13. Projection

14. Isolation

15. Constant Need for Attention

16. Difficulty Apologizing

17. Triangulation

18. Lack of Accountability

19. Sensitivity to Criticism

20. Superficial Charm

21. Love-Bombing

22. Emotional Vampirism

23. Chronic Victim Mentality

24. Inconsistent Behavior

25. Unrealistic Expectations

26. Hoarding of Resources

27. Boundary Testing

28. Hiding Objects

29. Future Faking

30. Consistent Lack of Respect

31. Blaming Others for Their Problems

32. Excessive Control

33. Frequent Mood Swings

34. Disregard for Your Well-being

35. Refusal to Compromise

36. Isolating You from Loved Ones

37. Frequent Lies or Deception

38. Stonewalling

39. Unresolved Past Issues

40. Extreme Jealousy

41. Substance Abuse Issues

42. Failure to Communicate

43. Excessive Financial Dependence

44. Lack of Support for Your Goals

45. Gaslighting

46. Emotional Blackmail

47. Constantly Speaking Negatively About Others

48. Unresolved Anger or Resentment

49. Consistently Dismissive Attitude

50. Emotional or Physical Abuse

51. Frequent Sarcasm or Mockery

52. Overly Secretive Behavior

53. Unrealistic or Extreme Expectations

54. Consistent Criticism of Your Loved Ones

55. Excessive Focus on Material Possessions

56. Chronic Neglect of Your Needs

57. Refusal to Communicate About Issues

58. Unwillingness to Seek Help

59. Unrealistic Jealousy

60. Chronic Avoidance of Conflict

61. Lack of Personal Growth

62. Continuous Disregard for Your Feelings

63. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

64. Emotionally Unavailable

65. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

66. Routinely Withholding Information

67. Pattern of Betrayal

68. Consistently Late or Unreliable

69. Lack of Respect for Your Time

70. Compulsive Gossiping

71. One-Sided Communication

72. Disinterest in Compromise

73. Ignoring Your Personal Goals

74. Pattern of Dishonesty in Previous Relationships

75. Failure to Keep Promises to Others

76. Inability to Celebrate Your Achievements

77. Constant Critique of Your Friends

78. Recurring Negative Attitude Toward Life

79. Ongoing Reckless Behavior

80. Compulsive Lying About Trivial Matters

81. Refusal to Acknowledge Their Own Mistakes

82. Continuous Emotional Coldness

83. Inability to Show Affection

84. Refusal to Apologize Sincerely

85. Frequent Crisis Creation

86. Pattern of Over-Indulgence in Substances

87. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

88. Unwarranted Attempts to Isolate You

89. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

90. Consistent Flakiness with Plans

91. Compulsive Over-Sharing

92. Emotionally Unavailable

93. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

94. Continuous Disregard for Your Feelings

95. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

96. Emotionally Unavailable

97. Chronic Insecurity

98. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

99. Routinely Withholding Information

100. Relentless Pushing of Personal Beliefs

101. Compulsive Seeking Revenge

102. Consistent Deflection of Emotions

103. Using Threats of Self-Harm

104. Refusing to Share Responsibilities

105. Pattern of Cheating in Past Relationships

106. Inability to Accept Apologies Sincerely

107. Unwarranted Attempts to Isolate You

108. Extreme Mood Swings

109. Sudden Change in Values or Beliefs

110. Lack of Personal Growth

111. Continuous Disregard for Your Feelings

112. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

113. Emotionally Unavailable

114. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

115. Routinely Withholding Information

116. Relentless Pushing of Personal Beliefs

117. Compulsive Seeking Revenge

118. Consistent Deflection of Emotions

119. Using Threats of Self-Harm

120. Refusing to Share Responsibilities

121. Pattern of Cheating in Past Relationships

122. Inability to Accept Apologies Sincerely

123. Unwarranted Attempts to Isolate You

124. Extreme Mood Swings

125. Sudden Change in Values or Beliefs

126. Lack of Personal Growth

127. Continuous Disregard for Your Feelings

128. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

129. Emotionally Unavailable

130. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

131. Chronic Neglect of Household Responsibilities

132. Unexplained Disappearances

133. Pattern of Betrayal

134. Consistently Late or Unreliable

135. Lack of Respect for Your Time

136. Compulsive Gossiping

137. One-Sided Communication

138. Disinterest in Compromise

139. Ignoring Your Personal Goals

140. Pattern of Dishonesty in Previous Relationships

141. Failure to Keep Promises to Others

142. Inability to Celebrate Your Achievements

143. Constant Critique of Your Friends

144. Recurring Negative Attitude Toward Life

145. Ongoing Reckless Behavior

146. Compulsive Lying About Trivial Matters

147. Refusal to Acknowledge Their Own Mistakes

148. Continuous Emotional Coldness

149. Inability to Show Affection

150. Refusal to Apologize Sincerely

151. Frequent Crisis Creation

152. Pattern of Over-Indulgence in Substances 

153. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

154. Unwarranted Attempts to Isolate You

155. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

156. Consistent Flakiness with Plans

157. Compulsive Over-Sharing

158. Emotionally Unavailable

159. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

160. Continuous Disregard for Your Feelings

161. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

162. Emotionally Unavailable

163. Chronic Insecurity

164. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

165. Routinely Withholding Information

166. Relentless Pushing of Personal Beliefs

167. Compulsive Seeking Revenge

168. Consistent Deflection of Emotions

169. Using Threats of Self-Harm

170. Refusing to Share Responsibilities

171. Pattern of Cheating in Past Relationships

172. Inability to Accept Apologies Sincerely

173. Unwarranted Attempts to Isolate You

174. Extreme Mood Swings

175. Sudden Change in Values or Beliefs

176. Lack of Personal Growth

177. Continuous Disregard for Your Feelings

178. Reluctance to Spend Quality Time Together

179. Emotionally Unavailable

180. Ignoring Your Safety Concerns

181. Routinely Withholding Information

182. Pattern of Betrayal

183. Consistently Late or Unreliable

184. Lack of Respect for Your Time

185. Compulsive Gossiping

186. One-Sided Communication

187. Disinterest in Compromise

188. Ignoring Your Personal Goals

189. Pattern of Dishonesty in Previous Relationships

190. Failure to Keep Promises to Others

191. Inability to Celebrate Your Achievements

192. Constant Critique of Your Friends

193. Recurring Negative Attitude Toward Life

194. Ongoing Reckless Behavior

195. Compulsive Lying About Trivial Matters

196. Refusal to Acknowledge Their Own Mistakes

197. Continuous Emotional Coldness

198. Inability to Show Affection

199. Refusal to Apologize Sincerely

200. Frequent Crisis Creation

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